Delaine has developed a unique approach to counselling and life strategy coaching. By tracing your history back to childhood, and finding the first life hurt or disappointment which created your current difficulties, Delaine helps you get to the bottom of them. You don't require endless sessions to crack your difficulty and begin ways of changing it.
Her training in Re-evaluation Counselling prepared her for identifying patterns of behaviour which people often mistake for personality, and which are the culprits behind most depressions, addictions and even ways of coping with anger, grief and other emotional reactions that people can't control. By the time your first hour is complete, you will have many BFOs (Blinding Flashes of the Obvious) of pure awareness as to why your life has its difficulties.
Delaine can see outside your patterns, and help you break your own patterns.
She has a particular empathy for the nature of problems that each of the sexes have difficulty with. Men find her pragmatic and practical to work with and both men and women find her succinct and to the point about the endless cycles which they are trapped in.
Her in-depth study of how men and women's patterns sit in the ways they relate to each other, Delaine answers many of the blocked or hidden misunderstandings of the opposite sex. Men and women have been set up to perform in certain ways not only through society's conditioning, but also through inherited methods of oppression of each other.
During her classes it is not uncommon that women will cry listening to a panel of men talking about the ways they have been hurt in their lives. Similarly men go quiet when they hear the stories of women in how they put themselves last in almost everything they do. Both men and women can experience these hurts, however men's distresses differ greatly to women's. These are just a few ideas of how each sex supports the misunderstandings which get passed down from generation to generation.
Delaine will coach you in the beginning tracks for learning new skills and tools that equip you to change the outcomes you often get stuck with, on a day to day level.
Video of Delaine on Overcoming Depression:
Video of Delaine on dealing with Addictions
Relationship Coaching
Relationship coaching is her forte, as she has had some 20 years experience counselling couples who struggle with conflict. Unlike most therapeutic approaches, Delaine spots the difficulty between a couple within the first 10 minutes of their time together, and she is able to guide them to a skill base which brings the couple closer to understanding each others' patterns which operate the conflict. She will often say that each person is innocent, but that doesn't make arguing with a partner any easier, as the nature of patterns often dates back to our survival skills as children. She will show that couple how to support each other in changing the pre-existent patterns, in a new way forward.
Her training varies to that of most therapists and you will feel as if you have chatted with a well informed friend at the end of your first session with her. The hour or so will fly and you will feel time has played a trick on you. Healing is nine tenths the awareness of the origin of your patterns that rule your life. She will then coach you to do the opposite to these patterns, freeing you up from what felt like enslavement to an unfruitful and sometimes destructive way of being.
Delaine has a long history of success in effective and confidential counselling in many areas including:-
Depression
Conflict resolution
Anger management
Anxiety
Communication skills
Executive/corporate stress
Health issues stemming from blocked emotions
Lifestyle/career guidance
Crisis management
Support for difficult transitions
Loneliness and isolation
Finding the elusive partner
Addictions
Relationship difficulties
Addiction dependence
Grief or anger management
Depression
Loneliness
Male/Female issues
Physical and sexual abuse
Business stress
Mental overload
Career problems
Communication
Lack of confidence
Coping with competition
Indecision
Parenting
Talk with Delaine and you will have a sense that you are not alone any more, and you will be well informed to make real changes in your life.
The Re-evaluation Counselling Model
Re-evaluation Counselling is a theory in counselling that explores in very quick and efficient ways the hidden patterns behind all behaviour. So many people experience reoccurring issues in their lives, so that finding a way to interrupt or transform these outcomes is near impossible. A trained RC Counsellor will see very quickly the source from which the expectations and disappointments reoccur in life and be able to model a different path to less distressed/patterned choices. A skilled technician can show you how to break the cyclic effect in your life. You can learn where you can go beyond your patterns of not reaching your aims and goals which become frustrating, repetitive and in the end, lonely.
Re-evaluation Counselling takes us beyond our patterns to our truest authentic selves, empowering us to make different decisions to shape our reality.
Everyone deserves to be, and is capable of being cheerful, affectionate, creative, self-assured, confident, respected, and above all happy.
If we don't experience ourselves this way then something is wrong. It's not the way life should be, and it can be put right. Often, all that is required is some loving, non-judgemental attention, together with some down-to-earth practical support, encouragement and direction.
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Delaine Jones
